Power Struggles and Conflict Resolution

Power Struggles

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Power struggles stimulate each person’s ‘fight’ to get what they think is right, however, in the ‘fight’ the most important component to resolving the problem – communication – is shut down herunterladen. Without communication, the ability to listen, negotiate or resolve the issue is also shut down. Power over the other person is ultimately never empowering and will not serve a relationship in a positive way herunterladen. True power is a power “with”, not a power ‘over’.